5 out of everything most women get wrong in bed

1. Inflexibility lack of creativity:

 The average African woman wants a man who can handle her. This translates into most of them being less creative and unduly shy in bed.  Yes, girls are slowly starting to wise up but on an average, many women need to step up their bedroom independence and start taking the wheel more often.

2. Using teeth and excessive force when giving blowjobs:,  

Just stop it. Go online, read the numerous news websites and Nigerian News apps out there if it helps you. Just don’t bite the head off or use your teeth to graze. Not cool. Only a few women truly understand the art of giving a blow job and this ought to be a course women study.

3.Lack of initiative when the man underperforms:

Quick ejaculation is something every man has had to deal with at some point in his life or the other. Especially when he hasn’t had sex in a long time, many a man tends to be oversensitive and ejaculate within minutes of his latest encounter. Women are quick to rule a man incapable after this. This ought not to be so as encouragement and re-arousal can make all the difference if he is a moderately healthy male.

4.Over thinking the orgasm:

Yes, orgasms are harder for women than they are for men. However, if a woman is able to mentally invoke her own orgasm and inch herself mentally and emotionally towards it, research has shown that orgasms will be more available to them. Why it is easier for men to achieve orgasms is because men can separate their emotions from sex and enjoy it irrespective of how they feel. Women on the other hand tend to mix things up mentally and physically, and then end up delaying that pleasurable explosion which has almost become as rare as unicorns for them. Do not over-think it, just cum already.

5.Neglecting hygiene:

The woman’s body is designed differently from the man’s. Hence, they need to be more clean and pay more attention to their lady parts else “Hello fishes”.  The smell of a vagina has the ability to turn sex into either a pleasurable experience worth repeating for a lifetime, or bracing mistake which should be quickly forgotten along with the partner. Many women need to pay extra attention to their lady because many men do not return because of the poor hygiene.

Other things many women get wrong in bed include excessive moaning, lack of encouragement and direction on what pleases them more, ignorance of the use of lubricants for when they become dry, etc.